REVIEWS OF ONLINE CHRISTIAN DATING SERVICES

Finding a Top Christian Dating Service that is right for you
by Danny the webservant / webmaster at AdamMeetEve.com

As I said on page one, first let me say how much I respect you for obeying the 2 Corinthians 6:14-16 Bible verses concerning God’s explicit command that born again Christian believers not engage in dating or marriage to non-Christians.

TWO VERY LARGE, WELL-RUN, CHRISTIAN OWNED AND OPERATED SITES THAT WE HIGHLY RECOMMEND TO YOU:

A Singles Christian Network™ is one of the largest Christian owned and operated dating services on the internet. It is also the oldest, founded in 1991 by Clark Sloan and his wife. I personally trust and admire Clark as a respected Christian friend and a hard working Christian Webmaster. Perhaps the ultimate review recommendation that we can make to you regarding A Singles Christian Network is the fact that we combined the 11,000-member Christian personals database at AdamMeetEve Christian Singles Dating with the database at A Singles Christian Network to form a huge Christian personals database to provide you with even more people to meet! Be sure to try the FREE trial membership. You will find a clean, well-run website full of over 70,000 *active* members who love the Lord. With an emphasis on “active” members and a diligent effort to screen out inactive members and troublemakers, this huge Christian personals database is a secure, wholesome and dynamic place for you to meet Christian singles online. I can tell you that Clark and his team work very hard to screen out in-active members and keep the database fresh and up to date. And you should definitely post your photo or let Clark and his team post it for you since it will greatly increase the number of responses that you get. You can make contact via the personals e-mail system, instant messaging or free chat. The customer service via e-mail or telephone is prompt, courteous and helpful with things like forgotten passwords, posting a photo to your personal ad, or answering difficult questions. But there are also online help-forms you can use to get help as well. Here is a neat feature: say you searched for a particular gender based on age, location, education and Christian denomination; and you found more profiles than you could possibly hunt through before your bedtime; well no problem, because the system allows you to save your searches without having to re-enter them when you return and login again. A real time saver! And when you make new web-friends you can keep track of them in your “friendship or friends-folder” which saves you time. And as for chat rooms, wow, some nights there are more than 500 single Christians chatting away in the chat rooms! As of now, there are over 3,000 couples who have met here and gotten married! Are you next? CLICK HERE FOR MEMBERSHIP RATES

ChristianCafe® is one of the largest Christian owned and operated dating services. The owner and president, Sam Moorcroft, is constantly striving to fine-tune and innovate new features. Sam is a man of good Christian character and I have a great deal of respect for him, after speaking on the telephone with him for several hours and communicating a great deal via e-mail. One of Sam’s innovative ideas that I really like is the fact that people can earn extra free trial membership time by referring others to become members, or even for reporting duplicate personal ads to the webmaster. ChristianCafe also has no limit on e-mailing others through the internal anonymous e-mail system, however, only paying members can exchange actual personal e-mail addresses with one another, which is more than fair considering the cost of programming and maintaining the huge database system. Both paying and non-paying-free-trial members can browse or search the detailed, photo personals by gender, age, geographical location and other factors. I find that during peak times the system serves up faster searches by limiting the number of search variables to only one to three of the most important factors you are looking for, like age, gender and location or education. It changes from time to time, but often only paying members get to chat in the chat room. Since most serious relationships tend to begin via the personal ads not getting to chat until you pay is not all that detrimental to finding a Christian soul mate. One problem I ’ve found from time to time is the number of inactive members: so be sure to check the date on a particular profile that interests you. Sometimes Sam runs a promo to invite inactive members back to ChristianCafe for an extra extension to their original free trial membership. The cost of ChristianCafe membership is about 25% higher than our first recommendation, A Singles Christian Network™, for roughly the same features and services.

VERY LARGE, WELL-RUN, (POSSIBLY NON-CHRISTIAN OWNED AND OPERATED) SITES WITH CHRISTIANS IN THEIR DATABASES, but also non-Christians as well since they advertise to attract both Christian as well as non-Christians:

eHarmony - Free Personality Profile

At eHarmony™ you can get a free personality profile, which is worth signing up for no matter what insights you may already have about yourself. I do not personally know the owner, or know if eHarmony is still owned by a Christian psychologist. Or who owns eHarmony.com, Inc., but it obviously advertises to attract both Christians as well as non-Christians, which is certainly not an absolute, insurmountable problem as long as you fill out the very, very detailed profile form specifying your Christian preferences; using the eHarmony proprietary matching model which finds people who are compatible with you based on 29 Dimensions that determine long-term success. After you have filled out the long form, you're all set to sit back, relax, and let eHarmony DO ALL THE SEARCHING FOR YOUR SOULMATE. This is wonderful for people who can afford the higher membership fees and have limited time to do the searching themselves. Because once I fill out the extensive, multi-page form it is possible to let eHarmony do all the searching and matching for me. This huge time saver may be well worth the higher cost of membership. If you believe that God has created your special, personal Adam or Eve to be your soulmate; this computer system can certainly try to find him or her for you, provided that you also believe that scientifically measured psychological compatibility is the key to happiness in marriage. In this age of "high divorce rates, even amoung Christians," compatibility with one's mate is worth trying the eHarmony - Free Personality Profile

There are many other dating services owned by non-Christian corporations, but for Christian singles who feel better about using a Christian dating service owned and opperated by Christians for the glory of God, we cannot recommend any of them. So we have deleted most of our other reviews. Christian singles may contact us for help in choosing (or not choosing) any online dating services that they may have questions about.

IN CONCLUSION:
Obviously, I personally like A Singles Christian Network the most. I know for certian that it is owned and operated by a Christian. The features are easy to use, searches are fast and the database contains 30,000 to 40,000 active members. So if you only have time to try one Christian dating service at this time, then definitely try A Singles Christian Network. But if you’ve got the time and money, try all four websites. Pray! Meet! Love! God bless you as you seek His perfect will.

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